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I grew up in Amherst and I live in Toulouse. I try to be curious.

These posts represent points of light that have illuminated the dark corners of my understanding.

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20 december, 2015
Respect your enemies

If you really want to achieve resolution with other people, it is important not to brand your opponent an untouchable.

The branding of your opponent as untouchable is a profitable technique politically if you succeed, because it prevents your opponent from even having a voice.

It is less successful if you actually need to get your opponent to agree with you to move forward.

Verbal Pacifism means respecting what your opponent is saying, not trying to preemptively exclude them from the debate.

The kicker is that the labeling has probably already happened or it wasn't you that did it.

Try to reach past the label and respect your enemies. It's the only way you'll ever get resolution with them.

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