to blurt
When you are with people you trust, blurt.
It’s better to express everything you think, whether it be stupid, sexist, or otherwise offensive.
If your friends are worth their salt, they’ll tell you, and you’ll get slapped.
Otherwise, you’ll stay screwed up all your life.
I just listened to a podcast about passive racism. Apparently, more than 70% of white people are not overtly racist. They are, however, significantly more likely to believe that a white candidate is better qualified than a black candidate for any given job.
I say get it out there so we can be confronted and heal.